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How to find the best online therapist for telemental health therapy

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Online therapy in the age of COVID-19: What you need to know

As I write this blog post, the world seems to be changing by the day due to the coronavirus (COVID-19).  Many schools and businesses across the US have shut down.  Americans are staying at home to ‘flatten the curve‘.  This is an unprecedented change to the way we live, work, and approach social interactions.  It can be helpful to talk with a professional about this transition and process our complicated emotions and reactions.  ‘Online therapy’ refers to therapy done by video call.  It is also known as telehealth therapy, telemental health, telecounseling, or telepsychology.  Online therapy used to be a niche area, far outnumbered by in-person therapy sessions.  This is rapidly changing as more Americans stuck at home are searching for online mental health therapy.  But ‘how do I find the best online therapist for my needs’?

Tips for finding the best online therapist for you

Here are a few tips to help you with your search for a telemental health provider:

Ask your prospective therapist IF they offer online therapy.

It might seem obvious as the world changes, but not all therapists have made the switch to online therapy.   When visiting a therapist’s website, don’t make the automatic assumption that they provide telemental health.  Even if they do, make sure they offer online therapy in the form of a video call and not just regular phone therapy.  The visual dimension of face-to-face is an important aspect of therapy even if it is not in-person.  Next, and far more important…

Ask your online therapist HOW they would provide online therapy.

Now that more therapists than ever are offering teletherapy, telecounseling, and telepsychology, you should ask how your prospective therapist would offer this service.  The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) has strict requirements about the privacy and security of video call applications.  Did you know that popular video call apps such as Facetime, Skype, and Google Hangouts are not considered to be HIPAA-compliant?  Others such as Zoom, Vsee, Doxy.Me, and Google Hangouts Meet are considered HIPAA-compliant because of the encryption they provide and inability for call logs to be traced.

Fortunately, CMS has relaxed this HIPAA requirement due to the urgent need for telemental health in the time of the coronavirus.  Despite this, it is still important to talk with your prospective online therapist and learn how they use technology in therapy.  Are they proficient in it?  Do they seem to understand the potential and pitfalls of this mode of therapy?

Make sure that all aspects of the telemental health process are secure.

As with regular in person therapy, it is important that every new patient understands and agrees to the process.  You should always review and sign what is known as an ‘informed consent’ agreement prior to starting teletherapy.  Such documents explain your therapist’s approach to treatment.  You should also be sure that any sensitive written information that you provide (such as client information documents, credit card information, etc.) is stored in a secure manner.  For example, ask your online therapist whether they use a secure online patient portal or encrypted email to send and receive such information.  Additionally, ask your telemental health provider how they process credit card payments and store any credit card information.

Now that we’ve discussed the technical stuff, lets get to the universal human side of this process…

As with in person therapy, make sure you have a good connection with your online therapist.

A fast internet connection isn’t the online important connection in online therapy.  The connection you have with your therapist is the most important factor to predicting the success of treatment.  Studies show that the therapeutic alliance or rapport developed in the first three sessions is predictive of the outcome of therapy.  If you like your online therapist, therapy is likely to go well.  If you feel lukewarm about or don’t like your online therapist, it is much less likely to go well or even last.  It is always good to ask questions by email, phone, or even a brief video call prior to starting treatment.  Even if you don’t do that, use the first session as a ‘try-out’ session to see if it feels like a good fit.

Pay attention to the process of telemental health, not just the content of what you talk about.

How does it feel when you talk to your online therapist?  Do they do a good job of making eye contact and holding your gaze?  Do they pay attention to your nonverbals, including things like how you breathe, how you hold your body, and how you show (or don’t show) emotion?  Even though you can’t be in the room together, it is important to find a telemental health provider who is attuned to you and with whom you feel a secure attachment.

Find a telemental health provider with whom you can meet in-person, if necessary.

Although many out-of-state teletherapy laws have been relaxed as a result of the coronavirus – meaning you don’t necessarily have to work with a therapist in the same state that you live in – I suggest working with someone with whom you would have the possibility of being able to continue in person therapy sessions with when life returns to more of a normal state.


Eric Spiegel, Ph.D. is a licensed psychologist and practice director of Attune Philadelphia Therapy Group.  He was the President of the American Society of Clinical Hypnosis (ASCH) for 2018-2019, and has won numerous awards from ASCH, including their Early Career Achievement Award (2012).  Dr. Spiegel is the co-author of the book Attachment in Group Psychotherapy, published by the American Psychological Association.  He has also published journal articles and book chapters on subjects such as attachment therapy, hypnosis, group therapy, anxiety, trauma, and relationships.